How to Tell a Girl You Like Her (Without Being Awkward): The 11 Best Ways
If you’re wondering how to tell a girl you like her without being needy, you’ve come to the right place.
In this article, we’re going to see 11 great ways to tell a woman you like her…so that she wants you.
There are many ways you can express your desire for a girl…
Some are great, some are not.
Some will make you look like a high value masculine guy, while some will make you look like a weak low value guy.
As you might expect, in this article we’re going to focus on the most attractive ways to show your interest to a girl.
You’re going to do it in an attractive way in order to get women to chase you.
Before going through those 11 powerful ways to show your interest to a girl, we need to lay the foundations that will allow you to get great results by putting this advice into practice.
First of all, I want to congratulate you.
Why?
Well, because you’re not like all those guys who try to hide their interest to the girls they like, and who—in the end—get friendzoned.
It is key to show your sexual interest as soon as possible with a girl you like.
Because if you don’t, she is going to see you as a friend, and not as a potential lover.
If you behave like a friend, the sexual tensionwill quickly fade, and as a result the girl will stop feeling attraction toward you.
Now, as you have learned, you should display your interest in a certain way.
The most important thing to remember when you intend to show your interest to a girl is that…
You must NOT do it in a supplicating way.
You must NOT wait for an answer nor validation from the girl.
In other words, you shouldn’t be needy (or at least you shouldn’t look needy).
That’s a key point to understand.
Many guys want to tell a girl that they like her in an attempt to get an answer from her.
They do it in order to finally know if the she feels the same way about them.
They do it in order to elicit a response from her.
They do it in order to know if they could take things to the next level with her.
That’s where they’re mistaken.
You shouldn’t tell a girl that you like her in order to get her approval to take things to the next level.
Instead, you should do it for the sole purpose of turning her on (in fact, for the sole purpose of expressing yourself and your desire).
You should do it in order to create in her mind mental pictures of a potential relationship with you.
You should do it in order to make her think about a possible sexual encounter with you.
Your goal when telling a girl you like her should be to generate some sexual tension with that girl.
Because it’s precisely by doing this that you’re sure not to end up in her friendzone.
Expressing your desire in an attractive way is the best way to not get the “Let’s just be friends” rejection that so many guys hear from girls they’re into.
And when do they hear this rejection?
Precisely when they tell them they like them in an attempt to get their approval to push further.
And unfortunately for them, when they’ve reached this point, it’s already too late.
They have been friendzoned for quite some time.
They should have told the girl that they found her attractive much sooner. Not in order to get an approval, but just in order that the girl doesn’t see them as just a friend.
The sooner you express your desire, the better.
Now you might ask:
“Alright Jack, but expressing my desire in such a way won’t cause the girl to lose her interest in me?”
It might, if you do it the wrong way. In other words, if you do it in a supplicating and needy way.
Again, you shouldn’t do it to get approval from the girl, but just to make her sense that you find her attractive and that something might happen between you.
You should do it for the sole purpose of expressing yourself.
That’s it.
NOT to elicit a particular response.
In short, you should let the girl know that you find her attractive, but without giving her the impression that you need her.
You should keep up a curtain of mystery, and not let her be 100 percent sure of your intention.
Now that we’re laid those foundations, we can start talking about the various ways you can tell a girl you like her.
In fact, you’re not really going to TELL her up front that you like her: you’re going to let her know or sense that you like her.
There’s a subtle difference.
She shouldn’t be 100 percent sure of your intentions or your feelings.
Let’s start with the first way to make a girl feel that you like her…
1. Complimenting her on her appearance
One of my favorite way to create sexual tension with a girl is to compliment her on her appearance.
Many guys will tell you to never compliment a girl on her appearance, but that’s just because they don’t know how to do it properly.
When they think about complimenting a girl on her appearance, they think about this creepy guy who pays the girl a rude compliment, or about this needy guy completely astonished by the beauty of the girl as if she were some kind of goddess…
In this case, I can understand their point of view.
But they forgot that there are many other ways to compliment a girl on her appearance.
You can do it in a natural and attractive way.
When you do it properly, not only you get the girl to feel that something is going on between you two, but you also get her to see you as a powerful, masculine man.
You’re not a weak guy who is afraid of expressing his desire to the women he finds attractive.
Instead, you’re a strong masculine man who is at ease with his feelings and who isn’t afraid of telling a girl that he finds her sexually attractive.
Paying the girl a bold compliment on her physical appearance is a powerful way to let her sense that you find her attractive.
And since no one does it properly, the impact is even bigger.
I like to compliment girls on their body parts (on their legs, their belly, even their booty).
The key is to make the compliment without waiting for an answer.
You tell her what you think, period.
This way, you won’t look needy nor creepy.
So if you wonder how to tell a girl you like her curves, have this in mind.
If you don’t feel like complimenting a girl on her body, you can compliment her on her look (her dress, her shoes, her T-shirt, and so on).
You can also compliment her on her hair.
You can use your compliment to create a new conversation topic, such as by asking her if she works out (in this case, your compliment was for her body).
2. Complimenting her on her attitude
Another way to let a girl know that you like her is to pay her a compliment on her attitude.
You can compliment her on the way she walks, on the way she laughs, on the way she looks at you, on the way she arranges her hair, and so forth.
The key is to let her sense that you find her attitude sexually attractive.
You can, for instance, point out at her sexy way of walking, or at her sensual way of pulling her hair back.
The rule are the same as for the compliment on the appearance.
You must not wait for validation or an answer from the girl.
You just make your compliment and that’s it.
You carry on talking about what you were talking before (or you can start a new topic, depending on the context).
3. Complimenting her on her personality
Another way to compliment a girl is to compliment her on her personality.
You pick something you find sexually arousing and you mention it.
Maybe she’s a playful girl and you find it sexy.
Maybe she’s the kind of girl who is committed to success and you find it stimulating.
The list goes on.
I prefer the two other types of compliments we saw above, since they are more direct and thus more effective to generate excitement.
Again, the key is to make the girl feel that you find her sexually attractive.
That’s how she’ll be turned on by you and be able to imagine a potential relationship with you.
Women’s imaginations are very powerful.
When you know how to use them to your advantage, you can attract women very easily.
4. Looking her right in the eyes in a prolonged manner
Why tell a girl you like her when you can make her feel it with just a look?
Your look is a very powerful tool to communicate emotions and feelings to a girl you like.
If you know how to use it accordingly, you might even not need to use words to communicate to a girl that you find her sexually attractive.
A prolonged look can do the job.
If you wonder how to tell a girl you like her without actually telling her, have this in mind.
The most sexually charged look you can give to a girl is during a date when none of you are talking (when there is a pause in the conversation).
That’s when your look has the most power. Because the girl can focus on it and feel the sexual tension between you. She can sense that something is going on between you.
So instead of filling the blanks during your dates, use them to look the girl right in her eyes in a prolonged manner.
And wait until it’s her who looks away.
Relax your facial muscles, slow it down, and stare at the girl.
Besides this, you should also look the girl in the eyes when saying something to her in order to convey a positive image, to create an emotional connection, but also—and above all—to let her sense that you’re the man.
5. Being (deliberately) distracted by her body parts
Another way to use your gaze in order to tell a girl you like her is to deliberately look at one of her body parts you find sexually attractive.
For instance, while the girl is talking to you, your look drifts to her cleavage, and you dwell on it for about one to two seconds.
Right after that, you redeem yourself and you start looking at her again (in the eyes).
For maximum effect, you can admit (shamelessly) that you’ve been distracted by a part of her body:
“Sorry, I wasn’t listening, I was distracted by your cleavage/legs/and so on….”
This is a clever way to pay her a bold compliment while remaining polite and socially calibrated.
You counterbalance by saying that you’ve been distracted and by apologizing (it’s okay since you do it in a self-confident way).
It’s bold and subtle at the same time, and above all very effective to let the girl know that you find her sexually attractive.
She understands that you see her as more than just a potential friend.
She feels right away that you find her sexually desirable and that you might take action in order to take things to the next level.
What is exciting is that she’s not 100 percent sure about it; you leave some uncertainty in the process.
So if you wonder how to tell a girl you like her without saying it, try this.
You can also dwell on her lips, since lipsconstitute a sexual part of the face:
Dwelling on the lips of the girl for a few seconds when talking to her (or when she’s talking to you) is a very effective way to introduce the idea of sex into her mind.
You can give her the impression that you dwelled on her lips accidentally, as if you’d been distracted.
Or you can do it deliberately by complimenting her on her lips.
This way, you combine two powerful techniques (the look on her lips and the compliment on her physical beauty).
6. Touching her
Another way to tell a girl you like her without directly telling her is to touch her.
Physical contact is a powerful tool to make a girl feel that something is going on between you.
By establishing physical contact, you communicate to the girl that you’re willing to get more intimate with her.
It makes her feel that something is going on between you.
Touching a girl is going to make her hornier, just like during foreplay.
There are various ways to touch a girl in order to create sexual tension:
You can touch her after you say something funny, you can touch her while complimenting her (depending on the compliment: if you pay her a compliment on her skin, you can touch her skin, and if you pay her a compliment on her outfit, you can touch her outfit in a sustained way), you can touch her hand in order to read her palms or play a game, you can touch her when inviting her to sit down (you take her by the hand or wrap your arm around her), and so on.
If you wonder how to tell a girl you like her but not directly, touch her.
7. Dancing with her
Dancing with a girl is a very effective way to make her horny.
It’s very effective in making her feel that something is going on between you.
It’s another way to tell her you like her without words just by using the language of your body.
Remember: physical contact is a very powerful tool in generating excitement and to create a connection with a woman.
When you dance with a girl, you can play with that.
You can pull her towards you in a firm and dominant way, then push her away while looking her right in the eyes, then pull her again and bring her body against yours, and so on.
Dancing with a girl allows you to generate a powerful feeling and make her feel that something is going on between you.
When I hang out in a club and start dancing with a girl, in most cases, something is going to happen (a kiss or more).
8. Romantic projection
What I call a romantic projection is something you say to the girl that implies that you might end up in a romantic relationship with her at some point.
For instance:
“You’ll have to take this off when I introduce you to my mother.” (by pointing at something she’s wearing)
“I’ll take you there for our honeymoon.” (for instance, if you’re talking about dream destinations or you’re walking past a travel agency).
“Is that how you’re going to educate our children?” (if she just said something rude or ridiculous)
To ensure that your projection is well received, you can deliver it with a playful tone.
A romantic projection allows you to subtly tell a girl that you like her by making up some romantic future scenarios between you and her.
From there, she’s going to imagine herself in a relationship with you, and as a result of this start feeling attraction for you.
Again, women’s imagination is very powerful and can be used accordingly to generate attraction.
9. Sexual projection
In the same way as romantic projection, sexual projection is something you say to the girl that implies that you might have sex together at some point.
For instance:
“Wow, I hope you’re not that brutal in bed. I don’t want to end up with scars all over my body.” (if she just did something fierce)
“You’ll need more stamina than this if we’re to have sex.” (if she’s tired after a long walk)
This is quite a powerful way to make a girl horny, since it gets her to create sexual pictures in her mind.
It’s a subtle yet effective way to tell a girl you find her sexually attractive.
I must stress the fact that I used the verb “might” to describe what a projection (be it romantic or sexual) is.
Because the girl should never be 100 percent sure of your intentions or feelings for her.
If there’s no uncertainty, there’s no intrigue.
That’s why it is important to perpetuate some uncertainty about your feelings and intentions.
That’s how she’s going to desperately want you.
10. Asking her if she’s single
At first glance, this might seem awkward or needy, but when done properly, it’s a clever way to tell a girl you like her.
During the conversation (when there’s a pause, for instance), you can ask the girl if she is single, or if she has a boyfriend.
This question is going to make her understand that you find her sexually attractive. This is going to make her see you as a potential lover, and not just as a potential friend.
What is important here is that you DON’T make the conversation about it.
You should just ask this question in order to make her feel that you see her as more than just a friend.
Her answer doesn’t matter.
Just ask this question in a calm (and almost nonchalant) way, and move on.
11. Going for the kiss
Any action that shows the girl that you see her as a potential lover (and not as just a friend) is a way to tell her you like her, without words.
Going for the kiss is one of those actions that show the girl that you find her sexually desirable.
Whether you manage to kiss her or not doesn’t matter.
What matters is that she noticed that you went for the kiss.
What matters is that she noticed that you see her as a potential lover, and not as just a friend.
That’s how she’s going to see you as a potential lover and start forming arousing mental pictures in her mind.
That’s how she’s going to really get turned on by you.
If she doesn’t let you kiss her, don’t be upset or disappointed. It’s part of the game. Girls love to play and to be chased.
BONUS: How to tell a girl you like her over text
With texts, you don’t have a lot of ways to tell a woman you find her attractive.
You can’t use your body language, your look, or many of the other tools we saw above.
Yet, you can use words.
And words can be a very powerful to generate excitement in a girl.
To tell a girl you like her over text, compliments are the way to go.
But again, don’t wait for a validation or an answer from the girl.
The key is to let the girl sense that you see her as a potential lover.
NOT elicit a response.
Here’s an example of a text message you can send her after meeting her:
“It was nice meeting you, I can’t help thinking about your hips…I couldn’t really concentrate on my work today, you have a bad influence on me, young lady ;)”
If it’s a girl you already know, you can send her something like this:
“I can’t help thinking about the dress you wore today…I couldn’t really concentrate on my work this afternoon, you have a bad influence on me, young lady ;)”
These lines are bold and socially calibrated at the same time.
They are perfect to tell a girl you find her attractive without looking needy or creepy.
I don’t advise you to copy and paste them, but rather to use them as models in order to create your own.
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How to Tell a Girl You Like Her (Without Being Awkward): The 11 Best Ways
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