How to Manipulate Women (Into Liking You): 13 Powerful Manipulation Techniques
You’ve come to the right place.
In this article, you’re about to discover 13 powerful strategies you can use to manipulate a woman to like you.
What you need to understand is that manipulation is everywhere.
Those who tell you that they’re not the kind of people who manipulate others’ attention or emotions are either fools or liars.
Communication always involves some manipulation.
Arousing peoples’ interest is manipulation.
Smart communication and manipulation are inseparable.
Manipulation allows you to shape others’ perception.
You must not ask yourself whether manipulating people is right or not: what you must ask yourself is whether you use manipulation in a honest way or for disreputable and evil motives.
The 13 manipulation techniques you’re going to discover below will allow you to influence women so that they find you attractive (and thus want to chase you).
It will also help you make girls addicted, keep your girlfriend in love with you, and so forth.
Without further ado, let’s start with a technique that might seem pretty obvious but that you shouldn’t ignore…
1. Manipulate women through clothing:
It’s basic, but quite powerful.
When you meet a woman, she has very few things at her disposal to form a first opinion of you:
What she sees first is your body language (more on that below) and your clothing.
The very first impression (the one you make even before you open your mouth) is going to depend mostly on these two things.
If you’re dressed like a bum, the girl is going to perceive you as a bum.
On the other hand, if you’re dressed like a wealthy businessman, she’s going to perceive you as a wealthy businessman.
These two examples may seem a bit extreme, but at least you got it.
Your clothing style is an essential manipulation tool.
Dress in such a way as to produce the desired effects on the girl you want.
When it comes to first impressions, clothes make the man.
Dressing well allows you to manipulate the perception women have of your social status.
2. Manipulate women through body language:
Like clothing, your body language is one of the very first things that a girl will use to form a first opinion of you.
Again, when you meet a girl you don’t know, the first thing she’ll see is your clothing and your body language: the way you stand, the way you move, the way you position yourself in relation to her, and on and on.
Adopt a relaxed and serene body language that communicates to the girl that you are in control.
Adopt a rather dominant posture by standing tall and taking up space.
That’s how you’ll shape women’s perception of you in such a way that they’ll see you as a solid guy who fully controls the situation.
And you’ll do all this without even opening your mouth.
3. Manipulate a woman through implicit disinterest:
As its name indicates, this strategy consists in subtly communicating to the girl that you’re not interested in her.
The point:
Keeping your (perceived) level of interest in check so that you can in parallel/subsequently sexualize the interaction in a bolder and more explicit manner.
But also while being perceived as a challenge, and thus as a guy to hook up with.
The girl’s behavior towards you will be different than her behavior towards the guys who look a bit too interested.
You can express disinterest implicitly…
- Through your gaze (such as by looking elsewhere, appearing bored)
- Through your body language (such as by orienting your body in a direction other than towards the girl)
- Through your words (for example, by saying something that implies that you were disappointed by what the girl just told you)
- And so on.
All these little psychological manipulation tricks are extremely effective ways to subtly manipulate a woman by getting her to tell herself that she’s got to do better to arouse your interest.
4. Manipulate a woman through explicit (yet exciting) disinterest:
This manipulation technique is quite fun to implement.
It consists of explicitly saying to the girl that you’re not interested in her.
But saying it in such a way as to not generate negative emotions; quite the opposite.
For instance:
“I’m not hitting on you.”
And right after that, you follow up with something else (such as a compliment).
“I’m not hitting on you, but I must admit that your dress is quite sexy.”
In fact, this kind of line allows you to sexualize the interaction regardless of what you’re going to add after it.
Here, the negation doesn’t really matter.
What matters is that you put into her head the possibility that you might actually be hitting on her (the negation is there so that you can deliver this line without a hitch).
This way, she’s going to make her imagination work in a way that will make her horny.
She’s going to feel some sexual tension between you and her.
5. Manipulate a woman through implicit interest:
So we just saw how to subtly make the girl feel that you might not be that interested in her.
But it’s also important that you make her feel that you might actually be interested, and thus that something might happen between you.
Manipulating a girl through implicit interest is about making her feel in a subtle way that you find her sexually attractive.
It is about making her feel in a subtle way that you might try something with her.
This manipulation technique awakens the girl’s desire in the sense that it causes her to imagine a possible relationship with you.
It causes her to use her imagination in a way that is going to make her horny, totally on her own.
You can manipulate a woman through implicit interest just with your gaze (by looking deep into her eyes, or by deliberately letting your eyes dwell on sexual parts of her body), and by being enterprising (such as by asking her out).
6. Manipulate a woman through explicit interest:
This is the same principle as the previous technique, except this time you’re going to proceed in a much more direct manner.
You’re going to declare to her that you find her sexually attractive.
To do so, you can use flattery (that communicates that you find her attractive, such as a compliment on a part of her body or on how something she’s wearing fits her so well).
You can also act enterprising (such as by going for the kiss).
The goal here is to increase sexual tension by making the girl feel that you’re a ballsy sexual man.
7. Manipulate a woman through voice:
The way you talk can change everything in how a woman perceives you.
If you spurt out your words like a jittery nerd, with a shrill and stressed-out voice, you’ll sound like a fragile guy with low self-esteem, no matter the words that come out of your mouth.
On the other hand, if you talk with a relaxed and poised voice, you’ll sound much more solid and confident, no matter the words that come out of your mouth.
Your tone, your flow, the pitch of your voice…all are powerful tools of persuasion.
So learn how to master them.
8. Manipulate a woman through mirroring:
Mirroring is about mimicking the gestures and the speaking style of the person you’re interacting with.
What you must understand here is that we feel more at ease with people who are in tune with us.
It makes us feel that we are on the same wavelength.
Unconsciously, we tend to mimic people with whom we feel at ease.
The reverse is also true: we feel more at ease when the other person mimics our behavior.
Influencing a woman through mirroring thus consists in mimicking her behavior (her gestures, her posture, the way she talks, the words she uses…) in a more or less subtle way (it isn’t about mimicking her in a caricatured fashion).
This way, you’ll get her to feel more at ease by your side.
Once you are in tune with each other, you can gauge her level of interest by introducing a change in your behavior (in your posture or gestures, for instance) and then paying attention to whether she follows by mimicking your new behavior.
A striking example of this is when you bring your glass to your mouth to have a sip of your drink: if the girl (or any other person you’re with) is in tune with you, she’s going to imitate you. She’s going to do the same, totally unconsciously.
9. Manipulate a woman through competition:
Generating competition anxiety is a powerful manipulation weapon to make women attracted to you.
When a woman sees that other women appreciate you, she can’t help but feel some desire for you.
There are several ways you can do that:
- You can make innuendos that imply that other women appreciate you and that your target may very well have to fight for your attention;
- You can also just be less available, enjoying the company of other women;
- And you can also ensure that the girl you want to manipulate sees you in the company of other girls.
Making a girl feel that another woman might get you instead of her is an extremely powerful way to generate a strong desire to chase you in her.
If you’ve ever wondered how to manipulate women’s mind, jealousy is your friend.
10. Manipulate a woman through social proof:
Notoriety attracts women.
Social proof is a powerful attraction trigger.
When a woman sees that a lot of people know and appreciate you, you become more attractive in her eyes.
That’s one of the reasons why women are attracted to celebrities.
Precisely because they are famous.
Here it isn’t about becoming a celebrity, but just about getting the girl to tell herself that many people appreciate you and want to be at your side.
Kind of becoming a celebrity in your community.
A classic example: in nightclubs, women are more attracted to men who are surrounded with—and seem to know—quite a lot of people.
11. Manipulate a woman by making her sense your social intelligence:
Making a woman feel your social intelligence is an effective way to make her see you as rather high-status and/or as the kind of guy who has the potential to climb the social ladder.
It immediately differentiates you from all those heavy and socially uncalibrated guys that hit on her all day long.
It makes her feel that you’re at least from the same background as her.
She doesn’t feel a disqualifying gap between you two.
There are many ways you can make a woman feel your social intelligence:
- You can, for instance, share an anecdote that implies that you understand social mechanisms in all their subtlety
- You can also accuse her in a playful way of being the kind of person you precisely don’t want to remind her of
- And so on.
There are many ways you can do this; it all depends on the context.
12. Manipulate a woman through forced investment:
The more you invest yourself in something, the more attached to it you feel.
When you invest time, energy, emotions, money, and so on in something, you want this investment to bring you something.
Getting a woman to invest in you is a great way to condition her into wanting something to happen between you two.
To do this, you can:
- Ask her a favor (that requires her to spend time or energy)
- Get her to invest into the conversation (by getting her to talk or to ask you some questions)
- Get her to invest time in a date, in a walk…
- And so on.
Get her to invest in you.
13. Manipulate a woman through vulnerability:
This manipulation technique is a useful way to put a woman at ease by getting her to see you as an authentic and honest guy.
This is about showing vulnerability from time to time.
For example, you can be honest and forthcoming about some of your flaws or weaknesses (that are not disqualifying, of course), or by sharing a not very glorious anecdote (but again, an anecdote that is not disqualifying).
This will get the girl to feel that you’re not afraid of presenting yourself for what you are (it’s at least the impression you’ll produce).
And as a result, she’ll perceive you as a sincere and authentic guy.
You’ll inspire trust.
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How to Manipulate Women (Into Liking You): 13 Powerful Manipulation Techniques
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